Thursday, May 31, 2018

Road to Recovery

Suicidal thoughts don't last forever. There are ways to rise above it and start your life over again. To live a better life.

  • take yourself out of harm's way
  • reach out to friends and/or family
  • see psychologist/psychiatrist
  • start a prescribed medication to help with suicidal thoughts
  • try stress relievers and distractions like: reading, working out, listening to music, or volunteering
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Parental Advice

For parents who have suicidal children, or those worried about their child becoming suicidal, here are some tips to help them get through this hard time.

  • form a good relationship with them
  • provide a stable home environment
  • spend time with them
  • listen and talk to them
  • be supportive
  • bring them to a psychologist/psychiatrist
  • recognize their symptoms as early as possible
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Wednesday, May 16, 2018

Emergency contact phone numbers, websites, and locations

Pillars:
- main line: 708-PILLARS (708-745-5277)
- website: https://pillarscommunity.org/ 
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National suicide prevention lifeline:
1-800-273-8255 
- website: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org 
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Other websites:
- https://save.org
http://www.sprc.org
- https://afsp.org
- http://www.allianceofhope.org

Thursday, May 10, 2018

Kinds of Depression

There are many different kinds of depression, but this post will focus on the 4 that commonly affect teens. They will be presented in order of severity: the least severe will be first and the most severe will be last. Remember-- it’s important to diagnose and treat depression early, or it could evolve into suicidal thoughts and/or actions.


Type 1: Adjustment Disorder
This type of depression occurs after a major change in a teen’s life. This change could be something like changing schools, an accident resulting in injury, or the death of a loved one. The symptoms include depressed thoughts, problems in social situations, or even sleeping problems. This type of depression generally only lasts for about six months. If the issue persists for longer than six months, it should be re-diagnosed. Some possible remedies for this kind of depression would be talk therapy.


Type 2: Dysthymia
This type of depression lasts for a year or a little over a year. 4 out of 100 teens are diagnosed with this on average. It is a low-grade chronic depression, but don’t let the “low-grade” part fool you. This kind of depression affects a teen’s ability to make decisions. Sleeping patterns can be disturbed, and eating disorders can develop. Other side effects can be problems with socializing, learning, and general functioning. Dysthymia can very negatively impact a teen’s life. Potential solutions are cognitive-behavioral therapy, which helps teens' thoughts be more positive by engaging them in deep conversations about how certain events make them feel. In some cases, medication is also effective.


Type 3: Bipolar Disorder
Bipolar disorder involves two distinct scenarios: feelings of depression and instances of mania or hypomania. During the manic instances, the teen might exhibit difficulty focusing, less need for sleep, risk-taking behavior, and fast talking. They also might act very silly. During the depression instances, the teen may feel hopeless and alone, showing many symptoms of other types of depression. These swings between two extreme emotions can greatly affect a teen’s ability to have relationships, learn, and function normally. Unfortunately, there is no cure for bipolar depression, but medication and therapy can make it less severe.


Type 4: Major Depression
This final type of depression is the most serious. It is estimated that 8 percent of teens have this disorder. As children, both genders have about equal rates of diagnosis; however, after puberty, girls are twice as likely to develop major depression. There is no clear cause. Teens experiencing major depression may attempt or talk about suicide and/or self-harm, and they will often speak of physical aches and pains as well. Many symptoms are also warning signs of suicide (see our article on Warning Signs to Take Note of). This kind of depression causes severe impairments in how a teen interacts with their environment. It can be treated by therapy and anti-depression medication.
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Sunday, April 29, 2018

Warning Signs To Take Note Of



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If you or anyone you know is experiencing these symptoms, go to a counselor or other professional for help.

  • Talking about wanting to die
    • This includes discussing self-harm or hurting themselves.
  • Issues of depression
    • They are diagnosed with depression and are struggling to keep it under control.
  • Loss of interest in activities and sports
    • They blow off practices or seem not to care. This is especially concerning if they used to be really involved.
  • Talking about feeling alone or overwhelmed
  • An extreme change in behavior
    • They become more rebellious and don't care about getting in trouble. Again, this is especially concerning if they were rule-abiding before.
  • Social withdrawal
    • Not to be confused with introversion. They show little interest in spending time with others
  • Writing or posting on social media about saying goodbye
    • This is a major red flag. Authorities and/or their parents should be contacted immediately so they can receive help right away
  • Giving away valued possessions
    • They may be doing this to get a sense of closure. This is also a red flag.
  • Not tending to physical appearance/ not tending to personal hygiene
    • They feel like they shouldn't take care of themselves because they "aren't worth it."

Myths About Suicide

  • #1- Teenagers who talk about attempting suicide are doing it for attention.
    True, and they NEED the attention. There is something going on that's causing them to feel this way. They need people to listen, and professionals to help them.
  • #2- All teenagers who are suicidal are depressed.
    This statement is true, but the reverse is not true, most people will experience times in their lives when they are depressed, but have no suicidal ideation.
  • #3- Suicidal people really want to die, so there's no way to stop them.
    False. They are depressed and need help. With help, they can feel better and find other solutions.
  • #4- Talking about suicide will cause a student to attempt suicide.
    False. It's just the opposite: not talking about it could escalate the problem. Even thinking about it makes the suicidal person feel worse. Talking will help bring understanding. Talking about it can relieve suicidal students and get them the help that's needed. Discussing the subject openly shows that you take the person seriously and that you care.
  • #5- If a person really wants to kill himself or herself, no one has the right to stop him or her.
    False. We would help a person who was physically sick or injured; we need to help a person who is mentally ill.
  • #6- Once a person is suicidal, they're suicidal forever.
    False. Teens who are suicidal can go on to lead useful lives, once they get help. Usually the suicidal feelings are for a limited period of time.
  • #7- Improvement following a suicidal crisis means that the suicide risk is over.
    False. Most suicides occur within 3 months following the beginning of "improvement", when the teen has the energy to put their morbid thoughts and feelings into effect. Relatives and physicians should be especially vigilant during this period.#1#



source: www.pbs.org